Thursday, July 8, 2010

August 2010


A Note from Pastor Ben

Friends,

I started writing this in the church kitchen while waiting for tomato sauce to thicken. It was the end of a good week of Vacation Bible School at Foothill Presbyterian Church, and for the last day we were cooking pasta. Later in the morning Carol Tillman made spaghetti from scratch and we ate together—kids, parents, adult volunteers and church staff—under the big tree out behind the Fellowship Hall.

It struck me, as, after sending the kids home and washing up the dishes, that we pulled off something remarkable with the VBS program. For the second year in a row we have had a vacation Bible school program that was entirely organic to our congregation. I’m pretty sure this is a rare thing. Usually, when churches put on a VBS program they go out and buy a slick, pre-made, corporately produced, expensive, one-size-fits-all curriculum. There’s always a theme to these prepackaged VBS productions, perhaps some kind of adventure vibe—not unlike “Dora the Explorer meets Indiana Jones”—only instead of heading out into the jungle the kids bushwhack their way through the Bible. Volunteers are encouraged to wear pith helmets. There’s a lot of Kaki involved.

And it’s good. There’s nothing wrong with letting someone else plan your VBS, but for the last two years, I’ve been thrilled with how well our congregation has done by coming up with something that reflects who we are as a community and not what some publishing house in Waco Texas imagines we ought to be. It feels like we’re fulfilling our baptismal vows—doing the work of training kids to be persons of vital and living faith—and communicating God’s love to them in ways we and they can understand.

A lot of people worked together to make our VBS happen this summer: Nancy Rubio, Carol Goedde, Susan Andersen, Gay Southwell, Bertha Nelson, Laura Roberston, Toni Ann Gatzke, Carol Tillman, René Banks, Nancy Leonard, Anne Daniel, Jane Wallace; but most of all it was Peg Nickl, our office administrator who made VBS work by organizing us and getting us moving. Thanks to everyone.

We’ll do it again next year!

Peace,

Ben

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A Message from Sandra Rasmussen

Hello Foothill Family,

I would like to extend my appreciation to everyone who has send me their well wishes and their support during my journey with cancer. It has meant so much to me to have you all behind me. Your prayers are welcomed and it gives me a great deal of strength.

Thanks again for everything. My chemo treatment will begin the first week in August and will be given over a 4 month period. Thanks again so much to everyone.

Regards, Sandra
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*Bible Lesson*
Chapel Day with Pastor Ben
Wednesday, August 4

Spiritual Theme: Obedience
1 Peter 1:22

*Special Events in August*
-Lunch on the lawn Fridays
-VBS August 9-13
-Outdoor Celebration, Friday, August 20
Marking the end to our summer fun with
Hotdogs, Face Painting, & an Inflatable Bouncer



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S.H.A.R.E.S. Update

Thanks to all of you who are using the S.H.A.R.E.S. cards at SaveMart and Lucky stores.
We just received our quarterly payment of $675.67 for the months of April, May and June! This small chain of grocery stores has pledged to give back to the community 4.5 million dollars in 2010.

By using your S.H.A.R.E.S. card every time you shop in these stores, you are making a
painless donation to Foothill – as you can see, this is currently amounting to in excess of
$3,000 annually. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!

If you do not have a S.H.A.R.E.S. card and would like one, they are available in the
church office.
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The Life of a Seminary Student & Chaplain

-Maxine Millender

You can’t control the length of your life, but you can control its depth-Gustafson


During this month of June, I have enjoyed working as a Chaplain and reading books other than those that are based on Theology or History. Although I really like Nora Roberts, Sandra Brown, James Patterson, and John Grisham, I have read most of Beverly Lewis’ books. As I continue to read, I am also thinking of working on my Theology of Ministry paper. I have many thoughts but have yet to put them on paper. Maybe during this month I will write a few pages.

Our crisis calls are high now because it’s summertime. We are seeing more motor vehicle collisions and motor cycle accidents and I still find it incredible that many drive motor cycles without a helmet. Even with a helmet there is a probability of a collision. Three weeks ago, a young man who is 30 yrs old had been to a bar drinking with a few friends and decided he was ready to go home. He left the bar, got on his motorcycle, and when he was about to make a right turn, was hit by a driver going pretty fast. He did have a helmet but when the car hit him, he rolled to protect himself and ended up being scrapped pretty bad on his right side and his head hit the pavement. He was fortunate and told me his Dad had always told him to protect himself. I was surprised to see the policeman but he told me he wanted to make sure the young mans was not drunk while driving or he would have a DUI. When I introduced myself as the Chaplain to the driver, he asked if he was dying. I had to suppressed my smile but told him he was not dying but would be kept overnight so that RNs and Doctor could observe him due to some bleeding in his head. I thank God it was nothing serious. I called his brother, friend, and girlfriend.

At 3:30 one Friday morning, a young man who is 23 yrs old came into the hospital as a transfer from another hospital. He had been stabbed with a pitchfork in his left side. He was sitting up talking on his cell phone and told me he had already contacted his girlfriend and did not need anything else. I let him know I was available if he did need something spiritual.

I am not sure if domestic violence is on the rise but a young woman who is 23 yrs old came in because her Mom beat her with a cordless phone. She had phone marks on her face. She was able to go to her neighbor’s house, call the police, a report was filed, and she was rushed to the hospital. I spoke to her, listened to her tell me about the abuse from her Mom’s boyfriend, and how she did not want to live this way. She has two children (2,4 yrs) and needed protection for them. I called the crisis hotline, spoke to the counselor, and with permission, shared some of the information. They approved her and I was happy. They explained it is a 30 day program but they would help her and I was glad she agreed to go with them. {I was glad she pressed charges}

A young man (20 yrs) and his girlfriend (18 yrs) were involved in an accident. Another person driving rear ended them and they ended up in emergency. The young lady’s Mom came right away but I called several times to get his Mom but we believe she was asleep and her phone was turned off. He was scared and I stayed with him a long time to provide comfort and her relatives came in to help also. His tests came back negative but he was very sore. She had a slight concussion and her Mom said as long as she is going to make it, she was ok.

A young man of 19 yrs drank to forget and ended up in emergency. When I asked why he drank he explained that his daughter died two years ago, his girlfriend left him for someone else, and his parents don’t listen to him so he drinks on the anniversary of his daughter’s death. I facilitated the conversation to guide him to think of a better way and he shared that he wanted to get back in church because he felt better when he attended. I was happy about this and his decision about church and God. The Doctor let him sleep for a few hours and I gave him a prayer book and some prayer beads which he was thankful that someone would do this for him.

When a code blue is announced overhead, we rush to the room. Early Friday morning (6/25), I rushed to our Neuro- ICU floor where a young lady’s (50 yrs) blood pressure had dropped so low the Doctor could not hear it. Her husband was outside the room crying and after introducing myself to him, he told me he was also a Chaplain with the fire department but worked in the field as a first responder. He told me he hurt because it was his wife, they have been married 27 yrs and something like this is not supposed to happen to him. He asked if I could begin prayer with him and of course, I did. His wife had been sick but would not go to the Doctor and when her symptoms seemed worse, he brought her to emergency and she was admitted. After the Doctors left and she was stabilized, I remained in her room with him a while longer, prayed, and left.

When I came to work later that Friday night, he was still there and had not been home. I convinced him to eat some food and the RNs convinced him to go home. The doctors had informed him she was critical and may not make it the next few days but she was stable. His neighbor had driven to get him and take him home. Early Saturday morning, she coded again, I was finally able to get him on the phone for the Doctor to speak with him. The Doctor told him she would not make it much longer and to get to the hospital. I spoke with his neighbor to drive him, which they did. He was able to spend time with her before she died and he sat on the floor holding her hand saying, “what will I do without her.” He was distraught and a few days later called the Chaplains’ office to speak with me. He did not want to speak with another Chaplain. I was glad to be of some assistance to him, when he needed it most.


Seminary status
As I enjoy my time from seminary reading non-seminary type books and walking, I am also enjoying reading the Bible each day and meditating on the words of God.


~ to be continued
Worry is pulling tomorrow’s CLOUDS over today’s SUNSHINE-Adrian Rogers

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Stanford Blood Center Blood Drive
Sunday, August 25, 2010, Room 9




Foothill Fellowship Lunch
Wednesday, August 25th
11:30AM @ Denny's
Capitol Ave & Berryessa Road








Fiber Arts Group
meets every 1st & 2nd Saturday
in Room 9 at 10AM.
All are welcome.






Men's Breakfast
Saturday, August 7th
8:30AM in Fellowship Hall

Thursday, July 1, 2010

July 2010




Pastor Ben

will return on
July 20, 2010





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Happy 66th
Anniversary
July 30, 2010



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From the Treasurer
-Sue Williams, Treasurer

We have come to the end of the church’s fiscal year. The world has been struggling financially. This year was also full of expensive surprises for the church. We ended the year with a $17,000 shortfall when comparing giving to pledging. It is not too late. If you are able, please prayerfully consider closing the gap between your pledge and your giving for last year.

Because of the expensive surprises and shortfall of pledged giving, we ended the year using approximately $12,000 of our reserve funds.

As you may remember, we were struggling with a tight budget this year. In spite of our best intentions, we experienced a few expensive financial surprises this year including: unexpected repairs to the Fellowship Hall roof and kitchen; unexpected assembly fees to San Jose; unexpected fire inspection fees and repairs; significant increase in property taxes; additional pine trees being cut down; and the purchase of a new tractor for mowing the back field. Thanks to the combination of generous donations from the groups who use the back field, our 13th month special appeal, increased rental of our facilities and the conscientious effort of the committees to reduce spending, the year ended better than it might have otherwise.

The preliminary report for the fiscal year just ended were:

Receipts – General Fund: $292,000

Expenses – General Fund: $296,000

General Fund total: $ (4,000)

Receipts – Preschool: $205,600

Expenses – Preschool: $205,900

Preschool total: $ ( 300)

Receipts – Memorial Fund $ 35,000

Expenses – Memorial Fund $ 3,000

Memorial Endowment total: $ 32,000

Other Receipts

Deacon’s fund $ 16,700

Parking Lot (AT&T rent) $ 25,000

Other $ 23,300

Other Receipts – Total: $ 65,000

Other Expenses

Deacon’s Fund $ 17,000

Parking Lot (Loan pmt) $ 25,000

Other $ 32,000

Other Expenses – Total: $ 74,000

We will have more accurate results after the audit is performed this summer.

On the bright side, we have been making great progress paying off the parking lot loan. We expect it to be paid off in August. Then we will work to pay off the loan taken for repairs to Fellowship Hall kitchen and roof.

I’d like to encourage you to complete a pledge card for the new fiscal year which began July 1st . Please turn it in to the offering plate on Sunday, or drop it by the church office, or call and let us know verbally your planned giving. We can better plan the programs of the church when we can plan on your pledge.

Through your faithful giving we can continue to support the programs and services of the church.

So turn in your pledge card if you haven’t already and consider catching up your pledge giving if you are able.

Wishing you peace in Christ,
Sue Williams, Treasurer

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Support The Lord's Pantry
Peg Nickl, Office Administrator

Help the Lord’s Pantry feed San Jose’s hungry children this summer. The Pantry is looking for healthy individually packaged snack food that doesn’t require any preparation such as raisins, granola bars, and cereal bars.

The need for food donations increase during the summer. There are children on the East Side that rely solely on school breakfasts and lunches during the school year. During the summer weeks there is less food available through the schools and many children are unable to get to the schools during meal time.

In addition to the snack foods, we ask that you help us to increase the amount of non perishable foods we collect to help supply the greater need during the summer weeks.

Please bring boxed cereals, rice, beans, canned fruit and vegetables, peanut butter, and canned protein items such as tuna, stew, and beans.

Drop off your food items in the collection bin inside the narthex door. Items will be taken to the Pantry on a weekly basis.

If you would like to help by making a donation of fresh or perishable foods, you may bring your donation directly to Gloria Dei Lutheran Church, 121 South White Road, San Jose, weekdays from 12 to 2:30 PM.

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Join your Foothill friends and family at Happy Valley Conference Center in the Santa Cruz Mountains for the years Fall Retreat. Don't miss out on this wonderful Foothill Tradition.

Look for more information about the retreat in the August Messenger.


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*Bible Lesson*
Chapel Day with Pastor Ben
Wednesday, July 7

*Special Events*
Summer Jazzercise
Tuesdays & Thursdays

Water Day Fridays

*Fieldtrip*
7/30 Happy Hollow Park & Zoo

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To Tom Parks for his years of service as CRV recycling drop off person. After countless hours and bottles and cans, Tom has retired from this position.

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The Life of a Seminary Student
-Maxine Millender

There are no unimportant people in the body of Christ.
Anonymous

During this month, I had two baby deaths. The one on May 28th was a 23 week old boy. The parents did not want to see a Chaplain or have visitors but I was informed they named their baby. When a baby dies, we have to work with the RNs to ensure they call the medical examiner and in this case, they released the baby to the funeral home. I prepared a certificate for them which had the baby’s name in addition to the parent’s name. The RN’s prepared foot and hand prints, dressed the baby, and took photos. A nice box was given to the parents and they can develop the photos when they are ready.

The second baby death was on May 29th. This baby was 21 weeks, weighed 13 oz, and was 9” long. The baby had a heartbeat but could not be pronounced dead until his heart stopped beating. I held the baby for about one hour and the nurse had him for the remaining time, while he was alive. This was their 4th loss and they did not want a visit from a Chaplain because their Pastor had spent time with them. They decided not to name this baby but they did want me to bless the baby, which I did. I had a service with the RNs and it was very nice. I was glad to hold the baby and not be disturbed by the pager going off. I prepared a naming certificate and called him baby boy along with the parent’s name. Although it is much easier for me to visit labor & delivery and neonatal departments, it is still emotionally difficult when the parents have suffered much loss.

On May 8th, a young man was brought in because he was involved in a motor vehicle collision. He had been drinking, ran into a tree and it took firefighters a while to extricate him from the car and it took me 2.5 hours to find family. His license was from another state and I had a difficult time until I recognized the street name where the accident happened. A lady mentioned it was close to the University, I called the University security, and they received approval to provide information to me. I contacted his primary contacts and explained the severity of the accident and also had his RN give them a medical update. They flew from their prospective destinations (VA, CA) arrived, received an update, and contacted his Mother. The young man was from India. He would have been a senior in the fall, and was a triple major. I met his primary contacts and they thanked me for taking the time to find them. He was practically dead upon arrival but they operated to try and save him. He died the day his mother arrived from India.

When a 41 year old woman came in as an assault victim, we immediately put her status as no information. She was beaten up pretty bad by her boyfriend whom she had been living with since July of 2009 and taking beatings from him. He had hit her in the eye and it was swollen shut and she required stitched on her head. She was able to run from the house with no shoes or identification on her. I was so happy when she voluntarily said she wanted to speak with a policeman because most times the women will tell us it will be ok, he didn’t mean it, or it will get better. Her friends would not come to the hospital and her brother said, “I can’t help her this time.” I called a shelter, she was given an approval, and they agreed to help her. I was also glad she filed a restraining order against this man.

A husband and wife came in because of a motor vehicle accident. They were 2 hours from home, he ran into a tree, and went through the windshield. He was admitted to trauma ICU but she was released. She couldn’t drive, they did not know their neighbors, and did not belong to a church so we worked with the Doctor to admit her for observation overnight and this would give her time to make some calls the next day to find help. Because we go through wallets to try and find family, I had gone through her husband’s walled before I realized they were brought in together. We always document what we find, put their belongings in our safe with head of security, and nothing goes in without the code from the Chaplain or ER Nursing Supervisor and security.

As you can see, I handle all kinds of crisis and trauma calls. There are times when a patient wants to talk to a Chaplain to ask why God has allowed something to happen in their lives, share things with the Chaplain that can’t be shared with anyone else, or to ask the Chaplain to help them ask God for forgiveness. Sometimes patients want to talk about their past, sometimes a patient wants to talk because they are lonely and their RN is too busy, and sometimes they want to talk to a Chaplain because they feel closer to God. No matter what it is, I make myself available to be there for them.

Seminary status
I attended summer school for the first two weeks this month. We had a total of 4 papers to write and I completed all of them prior to the scheduled due dates. This class entitled, Pastoral Care in Times of Crisis was an excellent class with lively discussion and sharing of experiences in a crisis setting. We had several books to read and I gained some valuable information that I can use at work. I learned a different model for assessing a crisis that can be used from time to time. School will begin in late August and this gives me the entire summer to work on my Theology of Ministry paper.

~ to be continued
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Join us for Vacation Bible School
August 9-13, 10AM to Noon

All school age Foothill kids, friends, and family entering 6th grade and younger are welcome to join us in the kitchen for VBS.

The kids will learn about being good stewards of the earth while creating (and eating) delicious dishes. Parents are invited (but not required) to participate. Contact Peg in the office for more details about attending or volunteering.
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About the Kitchen


Special thanks to Eileen Parks who has retired as Kitchen Queen and to Sue LeValley and Darlene Ristrim who have graciously stepped up to fill the position. Also to Jane Wallace who keeps us stocked with dinnerware and paper towels.

Bring it Back, Please.
We are missing many items from the kitchen. Please take a look around your kitchen at home for items that you may have borrowed or taken to clean.

If you have any items that you would like to donate, contact our Sue LeValley or Darlene Ristrim.




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Karen Withrow is collecting recipes for a Church Recipe Book. Please share your favorite recipe with us.












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We are still looking for someone to fill the position of Church Historian.
Marilyn Kromrey and Isabelle Taylor would very much like to retire.
If you are interested in keeping our photo albums and bulletins up to date,
please contact Marilyn.

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Saturday, July 10
10:30AM, Fellowship Hall














Stanford Blood Center Blood Drive
Sunday, August 25, 2010, Room 9













































Foothill
Fellowship Lunch

Wednesday, July 28th
11:30AM @ Denny's
Capitol Ave & Berryessa Road








Fiber Arts Group

meets every 1st & 2nd Saturday at 10AM.
All are welcome.







Men's Breakfast

Saturday, July 2nd
8:30AM in Fellowship Hall

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

June 2010

Dear Friends,

As the start of summer approaches, you will be receiving several appeals for your financial support during the coming fiscal year, which begins on July 1. We ask for support and for pledges so that we who are in charge of mapping out the course of the Church’s journey of ministry can know what to expect. Your pledge of support helps the leadership of the congregation exercise faithful stewardship.

So pledging financial support for the church is vitally important, but the church doesn’t just need financial support. We also need your presence on Sunday morning.

Simply showing up at worship is, perhaps the most important way you can support the life and ministry of our congregation. When you show up, you make Foothill a better place, a more exiting place to worship and to experience a community of faith.

When you come to worship you are able to connect with your friends and to meet new people who are joining us on Sunday Morning. When you come to worship you make Foothill more appealing to those who visit us, because a church with full pews is an exciting place for newcomers. When you come to worship you are better able to learn about what is happening in the life of our congregation.

So please come home to your church on Sunday. This is particularly important during the summer months when many of us take vacations, and when we get a larger number of visitors checking out our church to see if ours is a good place to worship.

So when you are in town on Sundays during summer, please join us for worship. It is the best support you can give the congregation.

Happy Summer!
Ben
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Volunteers Needed for Summer Sunday School
We need volunteers to teach Summer Sunday School. Summer session runs from June 13th to August 29th. If you're interested in teaching Sunday School this summer, contact Jane Wallace






Sunday School Open House- You Are Invited

June 6th following Worship Service. Come by and see what the kids have been working on this year.







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Flea Market Thanks
Marilyn Kromrey, Building and Grounds

The Buildings and Grounds Committee thanks the congregation for their donations of usable household goods for the Flea Market held May 15th. It turned out to be a beautiful day and did not rain. Thanks to the men who rose before dawn to come to the church to move tables from the Narthex to the parking lot.

Special thanks to Angie Carrillo, Darlene Ristrim and Carol Tillman for categorizing the many different types of items donated. Thanks to Ray Mignogna for donut holes which gave us sustenance throughout the day. Herb Miller was wheeling and dealing. Jan Miller made signs, Lin Peng, Udel Eby and Carol Tillman helped sell items. Fred Kromrey painted new "a frame" flea market signs and John Wallace helped place them around the neighborhood.

The Community gardeners participated as well and sold plants and seedlings to benefit the Community Garden.
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The Music Series
Joanne Reinecker, Music Enthusiast

Here at church I, Joanne Reinecker, saw last night (May 18) The Monteverdi Brass Quintet playing music from 1500-1600. Three ”Madrigals”, normally vocal, from Italy, starting with “Return of Spring”, from Marenzio and Monteverdi, were well received: one, a chorale-like with sonorous chords, of lyrical depth, using trombones effectively; the other being jovial or rousing in mood.

The next group of Renaissance Spanish pieces had a delightful trumpet duet. Another, “My Luna” had three trombones with a gentle theme but more full and songlike. Next, using solos, a trumpet and a trombone was having a dance-like dotted rhythm. Very fun was “Tres Villancios” which our choir once sang with a popular theme much like Lady Gaga! I even recall use of a triangle for this lively piece.

Our next prolific known court composer, H. Isaac (14th-15th C), wrote the non-sacred chancons (songs) into instrumental works that led to fugues (esp. Bach 17thC/1600- quite tender morsels for our ears). The individual players gave us the history of the types of brass families during the Renaissance Period, including a family of four trombones as to size and pitch, trumpet, and the early cornetto. They said this caused a cross-pollination of instrumental voices.

The Italian group also added a Flugelhorn. 1st composer, Banchieri, made music more complex and compellingly satisfying. Closing the concert was Purcell’s “Voluntary on an old 100th” (Doxology) with its precise melody and intricate, grandiose variations. To our delight, they chose to repeat it, being rather short.

A wonderful reception followed a fine concert that could have continued even longer.
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The Semibreve
-Jay Jordana, Director of Music Ministries


I’d like to extend my heartfelt gratitude to everyone who has made this year another wonderfully musical year! -To the members of the Chancel Choir, Children’s Choir (their parents and guardians), the Glory Ringers; to all who have in any way helped to produce/staff the Music Series concerts; to Kraig Williams for assistance with concert production, and for bringing great talent to the church and the community at large through the Peralta Consort and early music; to all who have provided special music and musical assistance in any way; to the congregation and your community of family and friends for promoting and attending the concerts, and for Ben Daniel and the Session for continued support. I feel like your every show of support, appreciation is an expression of gratitude for God’s gift of music to humankind.

I’d also like to thank everyone for all the support that Anne and I received at our recital. Personally, after 10 years of not having had one (in classical music), it helped to see a sea of friendly faces cheering us on. Thanks for the love.

The music program wouldn’t be where it is if it weren’t for your continued support. THANK YOU!

VIVACE YOUTH CHORUS

Saturday, June 19th, 3 pm

In preparation for the Pacific International Children's Chorus Festival, and the distinguished Bach Festival in Oregon, the Vivace Youth Chorus will be presenting "Pacific Gems," a bon voyage concert. This concert will feature Brian Holmes's premiere performance of The Song of Mr. Toad. It will also feature works by Bach, Bernstein, Conte, Chatman and Hatfield as well as settings of folk music from France (via Louisiana), Venezuela, and Newfoundland. Performers will include Jerry Holmes on bari sax, and Margaret Collar on flute. www.vivaceyouthchorus.org Suggested Donation $10/person
















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From Deacon Carol Goedde

I had a nice visit with Mary Mints yesterday, 5/13/10. She informed me that her brain tumor is in remission. She is taking medicine that helps with pain control. She was teaching an art class at her care center on Jackson each Thursday. I've had the opportunity to meet some of the artists and visit with them. Mary would appreciate visitors. Her address is LifeHouse 180 N. Jackson.

Welcome
Austin Michael Brown was born to Tiffany Kunsman Brown and Ryan Brown. Grandparents are Charlene and Michael Kunsman. Great Grandparents are Robert and Bertha Nelson.



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assembled Gift of the Heart Kits


Gift of the Heart Kits
-Jay Jordana

Thanks so much to all of you who gave so much to our Gift of Heart Kits project. Through your support, we were able to send 5 boxes of baby kits, and hygiene kits to Church World Services to help countries who have suffered major calamity. Moreover, when finished with assembly, we will be sending boxes of school kits to add to this as well.

I’d like to extend special thanks to Nancy Leonard for pretty much doing most of the ground work- inventory, shopping (She and Peg found great deals!), and more. I’d also like to thank the Joubert family for shouldering all of the shipping costs. With this generous help, we were able to produce more kits from money that would have otherwise been spent on shipping costs. Finally, with Anne Daniel’s, Nancy Leonard’s, and Peg’s help, we were able to put the kits together and prepare them for shipping. Thanks so much for your generosity!
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~A Special Thank You~
To: Elieen Parks, Jan Miller, Fred Kromrey & Jay Jordana for helping to make our graduation ceremony a success!





*Bible Lesson*

Chapel Day with Pastor Ben
Wednesday, June 2





*Special Events*

Summer Jazzercise
Tuesdays & Thursdays

Ice Cream Fridays

Father’s Day Lunch
6/17

*Fieldtrip*
6/18 Bounce-A-Rama

A Father’s Day Poem
~Author Unknown~

I find myself wondering...
Did I give you your due..
For all that you've done for me
Did I ever thank you?

For all of my childhood memories
For helping me deal with life's stresses
For helping me accept my defeats
And celebrate my successes?
Did I every thank you?

Or for teaching me the value of hard work,
Good judgment, courage, and being true
The laughter, smiles, and quiet times we've shared
Did I ever thank you?

If I’ve forgotten, I'm thanking you now, dad
I’m sorry it’s taken me so long....
I hope you, instinctively, knew it all along.

*Academics*
The kids are learning about the Letters "S" & "T" and Numbers 19 & 20

*Themes and Activites*

Zoo Animals 5/31-6/4
Summer 6/7-6/11
Fathers 6/14-6/18
Beach 6/21-6/25
The 4th of July 6/28-7/2
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Recycle Your Old Athletic Shoes

Bring your used athletic shoes to church during June. Collected shoes will be turned in to the Nike for recycling. The material from the recycled shoes will be is used to make athletic court and playground surfaces. For more information on this recycling program visit http://www.nikereuseashoe.com.




For use in printed publications, Right-Click on the filename below to download and choose "Save Target As" or "Save Link As"
The next Women's Brunch
will be Saturday, July 10th at 9:30 am in Room 9.
A sign-up sheet will be available in the Foyer. Any questions can be directed to Karen Withrow (408-735-8067 or Karen@dfj.com).
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The Life of a Seminary Student & Chaplain
Maxine Millendar

Inspect your own life before you look for specks in others
-Branon

This month has been a very good month and I am always pleased when outcomes are good and I can share them with you. During the past two months I have been working Friday nights all alone and my back-up is at home, if I need her.

Last month I shared about a 22 yr old male who was in critical condition due to a wall falling on him. He was a patient in ICU for 50 days and his parents finally agreed to move him to a hospice center close to their home in Houston. The swelling in his brain had gone down but his head was sunken and it was not a pretty sight. During his last night at the hospital, I visited him, prayed with him, read scripture to him, and talked to him. During an earlier visit, one of the Chaplains held his hands while he talked to him, spoke to his Dad, and both cried many tears. Some of the RNs cried also because they had spent a lot of time taking care of him. The young man will never have a quality of life but his family is not willing to let him go, just yet.

Another person from last month is the young lady who was stabbed while sitting at a park with one of her daughters. Her neighbors got together, retrofitted her house, and surprised her. In an interview at the hospital, she said “I am overwhelmed with generosity from her neighbors and strangers,” and this kind act of generosity made national news.

I have had many deaths this month and spent a lot of time with many family members. When a patient dies and there is no family or they are not coming to the hospital, I spend time with the patient and have a ceremony for them. Most times I will call the family to let them know their loved one was not alone and if no family exists, I leave the room with no one to call. One man (46) was brought to ER by a friend, his condition deteriorated, and he was taken to our cardiac center. Our head of security tried to locate family but to no avail. His parents had died but he did have a step brother who came forward but he did not want to make decisions for him and asked us to utilize his friends because they were closer to him. When he died, his friends surrounded him but due to legalities, we had to declare him as indigent and call the police dept. to get a funeral home that was next in line to provide a funeral for free.

This is the second time I have had a very large family for a bad prognosis which ended in death for their loved one. The patient (male) was 66, had been married several years, and had 12 children. The children have children and there are 112 grandchildren and some great-grand children. When the wife received the bad news, her children were with her, they started calling relatives, a total of 80 people came and were in and out of his room. I was able to handle the large crowd, pray with them, and provide pastoral care and support to them, especially the children.

When it was time for the consultation with the wife, her children, and RN, I was invited to attend. After the RN explained the process, I highly recommended that the family allow me to explain the decision to withdraw life support and the immediate family would stay with their father. When I went into the waiting room, I had everyone gather around to that I could explain what was going on and afterwards, prayer was offered. When I went back to the patient’s room, the Doctor’s order had been completed in the system, the RN and respiratory withdraw life support and the immediate family went back into his room. They gathered around him, cried, and within 10 minutes he died peacefully. They informed me how happy they were that I was there to comfort them at this difficult time.

As Chaplains, we extend pastoral care to RNs, PCTs, Doctors, and others. Sometimes people are hurting emotionally and I am so glad to be there for them. When an RN informed me a patient had clawed and scratched her, she was sad and mad. She said the patient was bipolar, had taken medication, and still did this to her. When I arrived on the unit, the patient was already asleep and the RN did not want me to wake her. I spent time with the RN talking to her about being emotional; the need for her to remove herself as the patient’s RN, and it was ok to do this.

Seminary status
I have completed all my papers for finals and getting ready to read two books of the seven for the summer class. This class is two weeks starting on May 10th and it will be intensive but I am looking forward to it. It is a discipline that I like very much, which is Pastoral Care in times of Crisis. It will be good to learn some additional things about being in a crisis situation and be able to share my experiences with the students and professor.

~ to be continued
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Foothill Fellowship Lunch

Wednesday, May 26th
11:30AM @ Denny's
Capitol Ave & Berryessa Road




Fiber Arts Group

meets every 1st & 2nd Saturday at 10AM.
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Men's Breakfast

Saturday, May 1st
8:30AM in Fellowship Hall